Grow With The Flow

  • Crime & Punishment ?

    Have you ever noticed that sometimes when people do bad things, bad things happen to them? A lot of people call this karma, referring to the Hindu/Buddhist concept that a person’s actions determine their consequences. I don’t practice either of those religions, but in Christianity we also have a similar concept that states that “you reap what…

    Lani Flowers

  • Unconditional

    What real love is. If someone’s love comes with conditions, then I don’t want it. “Yes I love you, but if you do this then I won’t love you anymore” sounds childish, but you know there are people who operate this way, and maybe with some introspection, you may realize you are one of those…

    Lani Flowers

  • Surprise Surprise?

    Nothing is a surprise to God. Not one single thing. God know’s exactly what we are going to do before we even think about doing it. God knows exactly what we are going to say before we even formulate the words in our brain, and although I do believe God has granted us a certain…

    Lani Flowers

  • Give & Take

    One of my biggest worries when I started my YouTube channel (and something I still think about to date) is that people will think that I think I know everything. Having to over explain that I do not in fact think that I know everything, and am actually very open-minded and eager to learn is…

    Lani Flowers

  • Cry It Out

    yes you read that right. I’m a crybaby and I’m not ashamed of it either. I believe in talk therapy and crying things out if you need to. Maybe not in public if you can help it, but honestly I don’t see much of a problem with that either. I think people shelter their feelings so much that…

    Lani Flowers

  • It’s OK to ask Questions

    In my most recent YouTube video I spoke about why it doesn’t help to ask “why”, placing a heavy emphasis on the fact that asking why isn’t going to solve the problem. While this is most certainly true, in this blog post I want to make the converse of that argument, which is that it is in fact…

    Lani Flowers

  • Why A Blog?

    If you know about Lani Flowers it’s probably from YouTube. I want to clarify that I have no intention of breaking up with YouTube — I love that platform and all of my subscribers (1548 total at the time of this post). There are a few reasons why I decided to start a blog, and what…

    Lani Flowers